Creating an Account
To start using Helm, you'll need to create an account. Here's how:
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Visit the Registration Page
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Enter Your Information
Provide your email address, create a username (5-50 characters), and choose a secure password (at least 8 characters).
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Choose Your Identity
Select the identity that best describes your role in the dynamic (e.g., dominant, submissive, switch, exploring). This personalizes your experience from day one and can be changed later in Account Settings.
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Complete Registration
Click "Register" to create your account. You'll be automatically logged in.
✓ Username Requirements
Usernames must be 5-50 characters and can contain letters, numbers, underscores, and hyphens. Helm will check availability in real-time as you type.
Age Verification
Helm requires biometric age verification for all users. This helps us maintain a safe, verified community and comply with legal requirements. Every person you match with or message has been confirmed as a real person, 18+.
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Start Verification
After registration, you'll be prompted to verify your age. Click "Start Verification" to begin.
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Choose Verification Method
Select from available options: ID verification, age estimation, or other approved methods via our partner Didit.
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Complete Verification
Follow the prompts to complete verification. This typically takes 1-2 minutes.
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Confirmation
Once verified, you'll have full access to Helm features including Discovery matching, communities, and dynamic management. Your verification badge is visible on your profiles.
✓ Privacy Protected
Age verification is handled by Didit, a trusted third party. We only receive a pass/fail result — no personal documents, biometric data, or identity details are stored on Helm servers. Your privacy is our foundation.
Joining an Organization
After creating your account, you'll need to either create a new organization or join an existing one.
Creating a New Organization
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Navigate to Create Organization
After logging in, click on "Create Organization" from your dashboard or navigation menu.
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Enter Organization Details
Provide a name for your organization and optionally add a description.
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Configure Initial Settings
Set up your organization's initial settings, including visibility and member permissions.
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Invite Members
Share your organization's join code with team members or send email invitations.
Joining an Existing Organization
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Get the Join Code or Link
Ask your organization administrator for the join code or invitation link.
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Navigate to Join Page
Go to "Join Organization" from your dashboard or use the provided invitation link.
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Enter Join Code
Enter the organization's join code in the provided field.
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Choose Display Name
Select how you want to appear in this organization (your username or a custom display name).
⚠ Organization Limits
Free tier users can join up to 3 organizations. Paid tier users can join up to 10 organizations. Premium tier users have unlimited organization memberships.
Navigating the Interface
Helm's interface is organized around four pillars that cover the full lifecycle of a D/s relationship — from finding a partner to growing together. Here are the main areas:
The Four Pillars
Helm is organized into four pillars, each representing a core part of the experience:
- Cultivate: Discovery and matching — browse verified profiles, match with compatible partners, and message in real time
- Connect: Communities and social — join communities with channels, direct message members, find mentors, and share content across pillars
- Command: Dynamic management — tasks, training programs, protocols, chastity management, rewards, and consequences
- Chronicle: Personal space — journals, mood check-ins, scene logs, media library, and boundary tracking
The Helm dashboard serves as your home base, showing summaries from each pillar with quick links to dive deeper.
User Menu
Click on your profile picture or username in the top-right corner to access:
- Account settings
- Organization settings (if you're an admin)
- Switch between organizations
- Notification preferences
- Log out
Creating Your First Task
Ready to create your first task? Here's a quick walkthrough:
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Navigate to Tasks
Click "Tasks" in the main navigation menu.
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Click Create Task
Click the "Create Task" button to open the task creation form.
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Fill in Task Details
Enter a title, description, due date, and assign the task to a member (or leave unassigned).
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Set Optional Settings
Optionally add reward points, consequences, and set the task priority.
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Create Task
Click "Create Task" to add it to your organization.
✓ Congratulations!
You've created your first task. The assigned member will be notified (if notifications are enabled) and can start working on it.
✓ Privacy First, No Ads Ever
Helm is funded entirely by subscriptions — we will never show ads or sell your data. Your information stays on our servers and is never shared with third parties. This is why subscriptions are our lifeblood: they let us keep building for the community without compromising your privacy.
Using the Mobile App
Helm works great on mobile devices through your web browser. For the best experience:
- Use the latest version of Chrome, Safari, or Firefox on your mobile device
- Add Helm to your home screen for quick access (works like a native app)
- Enable push notifications to receive task updates on your phone
- All features are available on mobile, optimized for touch interaction
Adding to Home Screen
On iOS (Safari):
- Visit helmapp.co in Safari
- Tap the Share button (square with arrow pointing up)
- Scroll down and tap "Add to Home Screen"
- Tap "Add" to confirm
On Android (Chrome):
- Visit helmapp.co in Chrome
- Tap the three-dot menu in the top-right
- Tap "Add to Home screen"
- Tap "Add" to confirm
Next Steps
Now that you're set up, here's what to explore next:
Set Up Discovery
Create your discovery profile, set your preferences, and start matching with compatible partners.
Discovery Guide
Join a Hierarchy
Browse available hierarchies, find one that matches your interests, and understand what joining unlocks.
Learn About Hierarchies
Explore Communities
Join public communities, participate in discussions, and connect with like-minded people.
Communities Guide
Explore The Helm
Your personal dashboard with role-specific views, Discovery widget, quick actions, and progress tracking.
View The Helm Guide
Learn About Tasks
Discover all the task management features including recurring tasks, templates, and proof requirements.
Read Task Guide
Configure Your Account
Set up your profile, customize appearance, configure Discovery privacy, and manage notification settings.
Account Settings Guide