Balance-based orgasm permission tracking with deposits, withdrawals, and Helm integration
The Orgasm Bank is a structured permission system for tracking orgasm allowances within your dynamic. The Dominant manages a balance by depositing allowances, and the submissive withdraws from the balance when permission is granted. Every transaction is logged, creating a clear history of permissions.
Navigate to Command → Orgasm Bank and click "Deposit." Enter the number of allowances and an optional note (e.g., "reward for completing all tasks this week"). Deposits are immediately reflected in the balance.
When a submissive requests a withdrawal, you receive a notification. Review the request and either approve or deny it with a message. Approved withdrawals reduce the balance; denied requests leave it unchanged.
The transaction log shows every deposit, withdrawal, and denial with timestamps and notes. Use it to track patterns, enforce consistency, or reference during relationship reviews.
Your current balance is displayed on the Helm dashboard and on the Orgasm Bank page. You always know exactly how many allowances are available.
Click "Request Withdrawal" to submit a request to your Dominant. You can include a note with your request. The request stays pending until the Dominant approves or denies it.
The current orgasm bank balance appears as a widget on the Helm dashboard for both partners. Dominants see the balance alongside pending withdrawal requests. Submissives see their balance and recent transaction history.
| Action | Dominant / Admin | Member |
|---|---|---|
| Make deposits | Yes | No |
| Approve / deny withdrawals | Yes | No |
| Request a withdrawal | No | Yes |
| View balance and history | Yes | Yes (own only) |